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| Now is the tough time to write your contact letter, made much simpler if you have already created your profile for replies to read about you. Starting your reply is easy with an opening such as, ‘I have read your profile and found you are most intriguing (interesting, exciting, provocative)’ or you could use something more elaborate such as ‘Your profile interested me to the point where I had to contact you right away to find out what we have in common’. While there are many expressions and various phrases you can use when writing your opening letter, the contact letter is truly going to be a reflection of your personality, and what you are searching for in a relationship. | ||
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Let me ask you a question: In the old context of *courting* was this such a bad thing? People were looking for lifetime partners, and women were the ones who enforced this higher standard of relationships. If you weren't serious about a woman, it was more difficult to have sex with her than today. (in general) Today, however, women have largely abandoned this role and now are becoming pseudo-men, in the sense of having sex with more partners, and doing it easier. This is great news for men who just want sex. Bad news for men and women who want long lasting relationships. |
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If you really want to weed out the riffraff, go ahead and enlist your very own George and Carolyn to keep an eye on the candidates, offer opinions and report back on any goof-ups.
Why date like The Donald? First, it's efficient. Why go through one lousy date at a time when you can date in bulk? Second, it's easier to see who the really great candidates are (and who is the best fit for you) when you can compare them side-by-side. With traditional dating, you may not realize that old flame from college really was the perfect match for you (six or seven years too late, after they've already been scooped up by somebody else.) And last, well, it just seems like a heck of a way to spend the summer. |
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Sex itself is actually none of these things, and in all the above cases, sex has taken control over the individual instead of vice versa.
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The problem for most guys, though, is that they really don't understand that no matter how *special* a woman may SEEM to be, it's almost COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT to how she will treat YOU.
What do I mean by this? What I mean is that if you want a woman to treat you well, you might think you should look for a woman who seems to be kind, caring, charitable, etc. In other words, a good person. |